Sunday, December 2, 2007

Happy Birthday, Mom


Three and a half years ago, my family lost one of the dearest people in our lives.

My Mom was an extraordinary person. Faithfully married to my Dad for almost fifty years, mother to ten children, and grandmother to twenty-six grandchildren, there was nothing more dear to her heart than her family. I dream of emulating her never-ending patience, her unconditional love, her ability to balance such a large family, her self-sacrificing servant heart, her unparalleled ability to cook, her gift of hospitality. My trusted friend, my confidant, my Mother. Her absence has literally been felt every day since July 25, 2004.


"A child speaking to a friend of his home, was asked; "Where is your home?" Looking up with loving eyes at his mother, he replied, "Where mother is." Home! What a hallowed name! How full of enchantment and how dear to the heart! Home is the magic circle within which the weary spirit finds refuge. It is the sacred asylum to which the care-worn heart retreats to find rest from the toils and cares of life. Home! That name touches every fiber of our soul. Nothing but death can break its spell. And, as dear as home can be, is the mother that presided over it, and that we loved. Long years may have flown since we saw that home, and since the dearest of all earthly friends has slept the long and silent sleep of death, but that home and that mother will never cease to awaken the sweeten recollections of our lives. "Home, Sweet Home!" -John McCoy from Golden Thoughts of Mother, Home & Heaven.

Today would have been my Mom's 74th birthday.

Happy Birthday, Mom. "May the dear Lord bless you", as you revel in His presence.
We are all thinking of you today, and miss you dearly.

Friday, November 30, 2007

Thanksgiving

Since I had a request to share about our Thanksgiving, I will acquiesce. To be completely honest, it's a bit of a blur. A busy week, with a lot of cooking and cleaning, I prepared to have a large crowd of folks from John's family over for the holiday. As it turned out, however, we had a very small crowd, with a large-crowd-amount-of-food to eat! : ) Ahhh, but all is well that ends well, right? I will admit to being slightly disappointed that more family could not be with us on this feastful occasion, but we had a very restful day with Bett (John's Mom), Marty (John's brother-in-law) and Marty's two children, Reagan (13) and Taryn (9). Our kids LOVE spending time with their cousins, and although Reagan has grown out of running around in the front yard, racing on bikes and careening downhill on the Green Machine, Taryn stuck like glue to each of our children (who all played outdoors for hours that day!). : )
I, literally, took a nap.
Thanksgiving Day came and went, leaving behind memories, crumbs and a lot of pies!
For those of you who have never seen John's beautiful Mom, here's Bett...

Bett is a godly woman, and any time with her is time well-spent.

The day after Thanksgiving, (the holidays tend to linger over here)... John's twin brother (one of our most favorite people in the world!) and his wonderful wife, Karen, came to visit for two nights along with their bouncing-smiling-sweet-little boy, Charlie. (I've written about Charlie on here before, he was adopted and has been with James and Karen for two years now.) We always love and cherish any amount of time we get to spend with their family. James and Karen drove all the way from CT (12 hours!) with a three-year-old just to see us (well, they came to see Bett too). But, still, what a blessing, right?!
So all-in-all it was a very happy Thanksgiving, and we have many things to be thankful for.
A seasonal highlight for us... here's cousin Charlie with the big kids.

(Don't ya think Charlie looks like he'd fit right in with our family?!) : )

Love is...


Sammy is Spencer's best buddy. Recently, Sammy's Mom gave me a copy of a writing assignment he had done in school. Can you decipher the phonetic spelling?

(Don't worry, it took me a minute, too.)
Here's what Sammy says about his great pal, Spence:

"Spencer is 7.
And fun.
He is also funny.
He is nice.
He is second biggest on our team.
He is very friendly.
He is my best friend."

(Now, don't you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?!)

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Another game : )

My sisters sent me this one through email, but I think it's more fun to blog it. You guys do it too : ) I tag.... ALL of you! : )

Welcome to the 2007 Christmas Edition of Getting to Know Your Friends!
Don't be a Scrooge!!!

1. Jesus or Santa? Jesus

2. Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? both

3. Colored lights on tree/house or white? white

4.a. Do you hang mistletoe? nope
4.b. Do you have a wreath? Yes, a fake one with lights and a snowman. It's totally cute. : )
4.c. Do you hang garland? yes

5. When do you put up your decorations? John likes to start right after Thanksgiving, definitely by the first week of December. The thought of it makes me very tired...

6. What is your favorite holiday dish? Stuffed fillet mignon, leg of lamb or cornish hens... any gourmet food suites me fine : )

7. Favorite holiday memory as a child: Granny and Gramps. They were a crucial part of our Christmases.

8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? 2nd grade, Show-n-Tell.

9. Do you open gifts Christmas Eve? One

10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? white lights, silver beads, hand-blown glass ornaments (Old World or Christopher Radko are my favorites.) Each ornament is sentimental.

11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? Love it. (Like Pat says "whoopee!")

12. Can you ice skate? yes

13. Do you remember your favorite gift? Two years ago, when John gave me a bracelet with all of the children's names on it, and one blank space for another child's name... He was ready for baby number five!


14. What's the most important thing about the holidays for you? Being with my family

15. What is your favorite holiday dessert(s)? pie, any kind... except mince meat!

16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? opening a gift the night before...

17. What tops your tree? An angel that John bought probably 10 years ago.

18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? Giving. But I cannot deny, I LOVE opening presents!

19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? Drummer Boy

20.a. Candy Canes? sure, one or two
20.b. If so are they usually gone by Christmas Day? no

21. Do you feel Christmas is too commercialized? yup

Monday, November 19, 2007

Jesus Loves Me

I was reading this morning in Essential Truths of the Christian Faith by R.C. Sproul. He begins the chapter on the "Incomprehensibility of God" with this: "The Swiss theologian Karl Barth was asked by a student during a seminar in the United States, "Dr. Barth, what is the most profound thing you have ever learned in your study of theology?" Barth thought for a moment and then replied, "Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so." The students giggled at his simplistic answer, but their laughter was of a nervous sort as they slowly realized Barth was serious.
Barth gave a simple answer to a question of profundity. In doing so he was calling attention to at least two vitally important notions. (1) That in the simplest Christian truth there resides a profundity that can occupy the minds of the most brilliant people for a lifetime. (2) That even in learned theological sophistication, we never really rise above a child's level of understanding the mysterious depths and riches of the character of God."
So true, eh?!

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Love Is...


Shocking your sister on her birthday, and whisking her away for a day at Disney World.

(L to R: Gail, me, Pat, Kath, Lori and Ellen)
This Friday, four of my sisters and I flew to Orlando to surprise my sister, Gail, on her fortieth birthday. When we arrived at Gail's house, Pat called Gail while we stood on her front porch to ask if she'd "received her birthday gift". Gail went to the front door to check... I don't think I've ever heard Gail scream that loud!

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Gideon and the book of Judges

We are going through several books in the Old Testament right now in church, and I have been reading ahead of time, during my quiet times at home. The other day I read the story of Gideon and the fleece. My favorite part is when Gideon says, "Do not be angry with me. Let me make just one more request."... Have you ever been hesitant to ask for one-more-thing from God? Perhaps it's unbelief (as it seems it was for Gideon), or maybe you just don't feel like you deserve it. I know I'm hesitant to ask sometimes!

Gideon said to God, "If you will save Israel by my hand as you have promised- look, I will place a wool fleece on the threshing floor. If there is dew only on the fleece and all the ground is dry, then I will know that you will save Israel by my hand, as you said." And that is what happened. Gideon rose early the next day; he squeezed the fleece and wrung out the dew—a bowlful of water.
Then Gideon said to God, "Do not be angry with me. Let me make just one more request. Allow me one more test with the fleece. This time make the fleece dry and the ground covered with dew." That night God did so. Only the fleece was dry; all the ground was covered with dew." Judges 6:36-40

Such a beautiful reminder of the patience and mercy of God. He proves His faithfulness to us, over and over again.
"O great and powerful God, whose name is the LORD Almighty, great are your purposes and mighty are your deeds." Jere. 32:18b-19

Hope you all have a restful day today.
: ) J